*This is for Lea [for her, not about her 
]
I am a person,
not just your frame-of-reference.
I am a person,
not just a frame-of-reference for you.
So if, when I step outside your expectations,
it causes you worry,
I am fine with that.
And you may as well be too…
So think of me as a person,
not just a frame-of-reference.
And if all that you want from me
is stagnant reliability,
a stepping-stone of relief,
as you discover who you want to be,
then I
am not
the person for you.
